my coming out story

my coming out story
Hey Dutchy fam! I thought it was time to sit down and get a lil sentimental and deep with y’all!! In today’s video I decided to take you guys on a journey on my coming out experience, how I realised I was bi, what I did to realise this etc! I seriously hope this can help some of you out if you’re struggling with your sexuality atm whether its bisexuality or not. I’m here for you always! So much love and respect for the Dutchy fam!! If you have any other qs please don’t hesitate to dm me or comment below and i’ll be sure to answer you! ๐Ÿ™‚ can’t wait to chat in the comments!!

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  1. I hope this video helped some of you! ask me anything in the comments and Iโ€™ll be sure to answer!! love you all so much โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

  2. Iโ€™m 24, I have considered myself a bi woman for a few years. I just ended a longterm relationship with a cis man where we shared an apartment and cat. Like you Dutchy, I became confused about my sexuality in my long term relationship and started having dreams where I was fantasizing about being with a woman I know. I was also open with my boyfriend and he took it well because he knew it had nothing to do with him.

    Now I feel like Iโ€™m at the phase of your coming out story where I am very fascinated with dating women and having more sex with women (Iโ€™ve only had 2 experiences). I am so deeply into women that Iโ€™m wondering if Iโ€™m no longer bi and actually just a lesbian. So Iโ€™m really happy to have come across you and your channel because I never knew about internalized biphobia! I guess only time will tell and self reflection. Thanks for sharing your story, I subscribed ๐Ÿ’•

  3. Hey so Iโ€™m a lesbian and I wasnโ€™t sure if I was bi I have never had a crush on a real man But like I donโ€™t really crush on girls but I can see my self with a girl. Also on the topic of dreams I have never had a sexual dream about a man only women. I have kinda knew I was a lesbian for 4 years.

  4. Iโ€™m Bisexual. And I know this for sure. And Iโ€™m ready to come out. But my parents are the only ones Iโ€™m scared to tell! Iโ€™m okรฉ with telling my friends, teachers en family except my parents. I tried to do it but I just changed to a other topic and they still donโ€™t know. Help!

  5. Hi Dutchy! Thanks to you I was able to come out to my parents…. They accept me! Thank you so much for these amazing videos. I've never felt so happy and proud to be who I am. You've earned another subscriber. Again, thank you! ๐Ÿ˜€ <3

  6. I've been confused for awhile. I'm in a long-term relationship with a MAN right now. But sometimes, I wonder if I can have the same capacity to love a woman. Although most ot the time, i feel that that is more of a "i wonder" type thing and I just physically admire women. The reason being is because I don't really know if I'd be comfortable having sex with a woman or if I'd be completely happy being romantically engaged with a woman, ya know? But another thing is that I have REALLY REALLY bad anxiety. It's like I don't want to be bi. Yes, I am friends with many people who are and I 100 percent support them. But I just don't know how I'd feel looking into thr mirror and seeing a bi girl. What does this mean?

  7. Hey, love your channelโค You probably won't see this, but there's something I've always wondered about. Is it worth coming out if you would lose the majority of your family? Also, I'm not really the experimenting for fun type, but also wouldn't want to date someone just to break up because I didn't know what I like for sure first. I am a bisexual female, but only have dated guys, yet strongly attracted to girls. Like I said, I dont want to feel like I'm just using someone before I decide I want to actually date that gender, but have only dated guys, so I don't know how to go about it. Any advice?

  8. I know my sexuality but I came out to my friends and one of my friends told my parents and I will never get to see what my mom's and dad's or my sister's reaction I am really sad cause she took that away from me ๐Ÿ™

  9. Thank you so much for this video!! I came out (to myself) as bi about a year ago, but lately I have been doubting if I may actually be gay. This video was a great reminder that bisexuality doesn't necessarily mean men and women but just your own and other genders, so it helped me a lot โค๏ธโค๏ธ

  10. I realised i was bi aged 16 when I had a crush on my bisexual best friend, before that I thought i waa straight (i did however find girls kissing hot but didn't think anything of it being a ditz)

  11. Hi Dutchy! I'm so glad having found your channel, all the other flirt tips et c. on the internet I've found are only for heterosexuals. Here's a little wish: Could you make a "coronavirus LGBTQ+ special edition" video, eg. how to deal with the fact that you're not allowed to leave your home and go on a date with your crush or what to do if you're locked in with a homophobic family as a gay?

  12. HIII! I just wanted to say thank you so much because I commented 2 years ago on how I had many questions about my sexuality but I came out as bi about a year ago! I recently saw the comments and many people also agreed with me haha

  13. You always say cis-gendered male/female. Are you not attracted to trans-male/females or have you just never been attracted to trans-male/females? (PS I am one to get offended for others easily, so I mean no harm.)

  14. I just came out to my friend as a lesbian on Snapchat after watching some ur videos I'm waiting for her reply, I'm having an anxiety attack right now, this is what I said: I'm a LEEEESBIAN ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€๐ŸŒˆ๐Ÿฅบ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘ˆ

    Update: Good news, she was accepting, well, I think, all she said was "oh cool" so I don't know if that's good, or bad.

  15. Hey Dutchy good morning beautiful I just want to say that you are worth it in life don't let the haters bring you down you have people like me who loves and admires you i'm always by your side i love you with all of my heart and remember when you are sad i'm here if someone pisses you off i will fight and defend for you if you need anything from me i got your back because you deserve an awesome life anyway i hope that I made your day have a great day Dutchy-Love Aubrey

  16. the thing that bothers me the most in being pansexual, is i sometimes feel like im too straight? so it always goes like this: i love girls, they're beautiful, i want to cuddle and kiss and marry them. guys, they're hot asf, maybe i'd sleep with one, but i for sure wouldn't marry one nor would i really be in a relationship. the only thing left is i don't find myself being turned on by girls, but i get turned on by guys? and it's so frustrating bc i have no idea what i am now, that's why i stay pansexual bc at the end of the day im attracted to everybody.

    help anybody please

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