so everytime i go out with a guy. everythings going fine until we hit off the bed. ive dated 5 guys already. not just for hook up. after a few or so months, i would give in myself. and everytime i bottom, we cant go further cos my ass is so tight. i used lube,lots of lube. tried to relax more but failed. which killed the moment. its been like that. i tried bringing up alternatives but to no avail. so i just got dumped today because of that as well.