Anal sex after cumming

Hi everyone. My new Daddy is a dominant top guy. He wants me to cum first which I have no problem with but the problem is after I cum like any guy I loose some of my desire and libido and go through the refractory period and he still wants to fuck me. I want to make him happy and want to give him pleasure as well so I am always willing but only problem is it is a little uncomfortable for me, doesn’t hurt, just uncomfortable. Is there anyway past that? I have heard with practice you just get used to it and some may even get hard again. Some guys don’t have this problem. What do you all think?

6 COMMENTS

  1. Assertive top here. Some guys are just not able to get fucked after they cum. A good top needs to accept that. Fucking a dude who isn’t enjoying it isn’t a “dominant” thing – it’s an asshole behavior. And being able to be fucked after cumming is a superpower not every bottom has.

    Even if you can power through for a little bit so the top can finish (and he should do so quickly) – that shouldn’t be an every time thing you do for him.

  2. I’m in the same boat, I don’t like continuing to get fucked after I cum (I’m willing to do anything else though, but my body just stops enjoying it after an orgasm). I wear a jockstrap for this reason now, since it blocks me from easily jerking off which is really tempting in the heat of the moment.

  3. If you can’t get past it then you need to have a candid talk with your top. Maybe he can cum first. Open and honest communication is the key to any successful relationship.

    Also, sex is as much mental as it is physical. I’ve been with tops that I didn’t have an irresistable attraction to and it’s hard to keep my head in the game after I nut.

    On the other hand I’ve been with tops (usually black guys) that ignite a burning desire inside me that’s impossible to put into words. In those instances I was essentially begging them to keep pounding me after I came.

    In my experience, and I’m not judging you or your relationship, it really comes down to headspace. You have to have a level of desire that overrides all others. You have to keep your mind deep in the game.

    With the right top (for me it’s black guys) my physical comfort is an afterthought because my mind is singularly focused on the lust and the carnal desires of my body. I have an overwhelming drive to please them.

    I think, and this is purely anecdotal, that if you can get to that point with your current top you’ll get past this issue.

    Good luck!

  4. I used to be unable to after I cum but for my past tops bday he really wanted to so I let him. It was so hot when I got around to cum the second time.

    You just have to be really submissive.

  5. I 2nd what Azureal wrote. Have y’all tried anal/hands-free orgasms for you? While again not a superpower all bottoms have, my ex could keep going only if he came hands free but if I jerked him off he’d enter his refractory period.

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