I don’t pick up guys on Reddit but I do chat with a lot of guys on here. What irks me most is guys who are married and want to chat and would, presumably, want to fuck. Dude, you have a wife. Go to her. You don’t feel happy? Get a divorce. Otherwise, you’re cheating. I’ve been in relationships where I’ve been betrayed and it’s the worst feeling and she didn’t even cheat on me. She just talked behind my back. If you say you’re married then I’ll cut off anything and most of the time I just refuse to message you.